• if a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it....hmmmmm there is some truth there...being a secret 'friend' is akin to being invisible...I should run

• pay off your credit cards each month....I used to do that and I will again someday...maybe when money grows on trees.

• make peace with your past so it won't screw up your future....I don't have a past that I need to make peace with...just a past that holds some disappointments..

• take a deep breath it calms the mind...I know that is true..this may only work for a minute...so take another deep breath. 

• get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful...spring cleaning!

• what other people think of you is none of your business...I like this one.